Lifestyles and Relationships “When Is It Time To Move On”

So I recently had a conversation with a friend, who has been dating a guy for 3 years and posed the question “will there ever be a time when we reside together “but never got an answer. Her man has always resided with his family and moved into a brand new apartment, but not by him with 3 other males. Yes, three other males, what were they trying to live dorm style. Me as well as my friend could not believe it. How could he, even when she had been asking him for the last couple of months to move in with her, and to move with 3 other guys. You see this was the last straw to show that he wasn’t in love and hasn’t grown up. They have been going through a lot of situations over the years that has lead up to this event. I mean he went to school and all, and obtained his degree, but did nothing with it. He works in retail, and when the conversation arouse of getting another job to support himself the answer was“I have been looking and no one is hiring”, okay understandable but when you go on interview after interview you begin to sale yourself more and more, to the point where you aren’t going to take no for an answer. The fact that he doesn’t care about his finances, and has a degree but still doesn’t want to get a job, mingles with women when ever he wants,  go out when he wants, moves in with 4 other guys in a unsafe environment who all aren’t in relationships, and doesn’t agree with your dreams and or aspirations, it is time to move on. And, that was the conclusion of our conversation. If you are trying to be a true friend remember that the best advice is for you to always be true and honest, and to never sugar coat anything, which is also termed Keeping It Real.   Ladies please do not sell yourself short, if you want to know how a guy or man will treat you, sit back, be quiet, and relax and he'll show you his true colors. It's up to you to make grown up decisions by moving on when need be.. Thanks for reading ladies and I hope this helped…

Written by: LaToya Rippy