♫ You Make Me Happy ♫

We all know that one couple that makes being in a relationship look so easy.  Yea, half of these couples are scripted on television but believe it or not there are real life couples who just love spending time together. Here are some interesting ways those happy couples stay well…happy. 

    ·     This is the number one relationship rule I have, never go to bed angry.  Not only will it show on your face the next morning but the issue is not resolved, the problem worsens cause it lasted longer then it needed to and no matter what you still will have to deal with it. 

   ·       If you guys live together, or you go to one another houses, dorm rooms, apartments spend time by doing chores together like washing the dishes and doing the laundry.

   ·      Sending each photos or things in your day that made you smile.  If you’re walking down the street and notice something funny or something that reminds you of each other snap a picture and send it.  It’s always nice to show you are thinking of each other and to just simply share your day with one another. 

   ·      Keep each other laughing is the key.  We are all going to fight but if the good times outweigh the bad, you’ll be just fine. 

  ·       Be straightforward and don’t play games.  There is no need for subliminal messages.  It leaves too much up for misinterpretation.

·          Remember to say “I love you.”  And be affectionate to each other.  Simple as that!

·          Give each other freedom to hang with friends, see family and relax. 

·          Show interest in each others hobbies.  We may not be fans of the PS3 but it wouldn’t hurt to play one game of madden with him.

·          Be silly together.  Get into water fights, play jokes on each other, just enjoy one another’s time. 

·          Don’t listen to the opinions of other people.  No one knows your relationship better then you and the other person involved.  Seek help and advice when needed but try working it out alone first. 

·          The three C’s: compromise, communication and cuddling!

·          Date nights.  They don’t have to be expensive but its time you set aside just for the two of you.

·          Have amazing Sex!

·          Remember there is a fine line between being comfortable and taking each other for granted.  Always be aware of what side you’re on.

·          One of the most important rules yet, take time out for yourself! Stay in touch with yourself, you honestly can’t love someone else until you love yourself. Being you will remind him of why he fell in love with you. 

Just remind yourself, you love this person and show it!

                                                                                                                -Amethyst